Tips for Communicating with your child about sexuality

Don’t wait to be asked. Bring up issues from time to time. Daily life gives us many "teachable moments." Let your child know you are open to discussions about sexuality.
Listen to your child. When your child approaches you with a question or concern, stop and listen. Show your interest, and if possible, hold your reaction or advice until your child is finished speaking.
Be patient. Expect the same questions to come up again and again, as children often have trouble understanding some information and may need reassurance about the changes they are going through.
Give simple explanations. Use appropriate names for body parts and body functions.
Tell the truth. Children want specific information, especially about sexuality issues. If you don’t know the answer, offer to find out.
Talk about your values. Let your children know what your beliefs, values and expectations are. Remember that you serve as a role model to them.
Be involved. Know what your children are doing. This includes knowing their friends, what they watch on TV and the music they listen to, all of which will provide unlimited "teachable moments."
Keep the door open. Even if you and your child don’t always agree, let your child know you are available for other conversations or questions.